Selayang pandang ~
bocoran tentang siapa jodoh kita :
“Wanita-wanita yang tidak baik untuk laki-laki yang tidak baik, dan laki-laki yang tidak baik adalah untuk wanita yang tidak baik pula. Wanita yang baik untuk untuk lelaki yang baik dan lelaki yang baik untuk wanita yang baik”- QS. An Nur: 26 –



Relationship goals?
My friend told me to read article about relationship goals by Carrisa T. It is told me alot
So relationship goals, “to be as awesome, as prestigious, and as well known as my future spouse, if not more.”
Power couple, darling. We will rule the world.

As for girls, NEVER hold yourself back just for the sake of not intimidating men. Grow, honey. Sekolah setinggi mungkin, ikut banyak kompetisi, cari banyak pengalaman. Investasikan ilmu dan pengalaman di diri kamu sebanyak mungkin. You have to be able to rise independently.

To be certain it doesn’t mean we should violate the rules as a woman dovoted to her husband. Tugas kita bukan hanya menjadi ibu dan istri yang mengurus dapur. Kita harus bisa menjadi wanita kuat yang hebat dan mandiri, just in case ada tragedi yang menimpa suami atau harus meninggalkan suami karena ada satu atau lain hal, kita harus bisa jadi contoh bagi anak-anak, dan tiang penyangga keuangan keluarga bersama suami. Our task is tough, my ladies. And our place is no longer solely in the kitchen.

Be selfish, be greedy on knowledge, advocate for yourself. Be ambitious !

For you, who doesn’t have a partner yet, do not be worry. Istilahnya tidak perlu galau karena jika wanita sekolah terlalu tinggi tidak akan ada yang berani melamar.
My friensds , this is 21 century already, so please just erase this kind of things. Jika masih takut karena tidak akan ada jodoh yang datang, please read my first paragraf, surat An Nur ayat 26. Jodoh adalah cerminan diri. Kalau sekarang kita sedang berdoa untuk jodoh kita, disanapun dia juga sedang mendoakan kita, sampai suatu saat in the right time, at the right place, with the right person, you’ll be meet.
Bertemu dengan duri dan ranjau dalam berjuang adalah niscaya, tapi percayalah diakhir perjuangan kan kau temui bahagiamu.

The relarated article with the tittle “The New Trophy Wife” said,
A really strong man wants a woman who is equal to him, that is the truth of it now. A weak man wants someone that is docile and a servant to him. It is a real sign of insecurity in a man to want a brainless tropy wife. Wives can be beautiful, intelligent and have careers and opinions just as strong as their partners.

Bissmillahirrahmanirrahim, i’ll be a good girl, strong and i’ll catch my dream.
The higher desire that i want, the harder road i’ll be take. I can do it !!!
InsyaAllah. Allahhu Akbar Allahhu Akbar Allahhu Akbar!!! :)

i'm so sorry tulisannya random, just like me.

Relationship goals

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Selayang pandang ~ bocoran tentang siapa jodoh kita : “Wanita-wanita yang tidak baik untuk laki-laki yang tidak baik, dan laki-laki yang t...
That day,
You said something unexpected
saying that you loved me
shout out my name from the rooftop
bursting out my heart

But.. someone also claimed that "he" loved me
but he never dared to call out my name.

And then my confusion mounted,
My loyalities tested
My love torn
Conflicted !

Then the hard part came.
And I expected you to call out my name once more, my love
to stand by my side
to stand for the rest of time
time flies
but you still silent
quite acceptance of my pain

My loyalities were tested no more
you never called out my name
never stood by me
you turned your back
never faltered

Kneeling down in silence
the tears that fall down from the window of my heart
they answered me
you're someone who i can't have
a person i have to forget
like the wind, like the dust
I can’t catch you, I can’t see you

Raining..
and the rain pelted me like rocks
as my body was beaten down by the strength of the wind,
the wind lost its power.
The rain did not pour down so hard
and in that moment realization dawned.

"He" had blocked the wind with his body
Turned his body into a makeshift umbrella.
Proved to me that he didn't need to call me from the rooftop
That he didn't need to put on a show for the masses
Proved to me that he would stand by me, for me
That my pain was his pain.
My struggles his
That his love was cemented in a powerful silence
A silence that endured through action.

-Siska Hermawati-

This poem was inspired by Moon Lovers Scarlet Heart Ryeo
-Love in silence JSTJ-